Feeling of motivation and purpose

Feeling of Motivation and Purpose

Prompts people to act in a certain way and propose specific objectives, effective, concrete and achievable.

The person with self-esteem knows what he wants to accomplish and see how the short, medium and long term. His energies are directed to specific tasks and are satisfied when they have achieved what they set.

The lack of a sense of direction and purpose remains a real motivation to make efforts to achieve targets, as the necessary conviction and will to succeed does not occur.

Parents can encourage their children to the action from the confidence that you show your ability and willingness. Expectations that a parent has for each of their children / as vary the perception by each / a of them / as. Sometimes these expectations respond only to their desires and their preconceptions and have responses from the / as children / as.

Often, these expectations reflect frustrations of parents in childhood. Parents pass on to their children / as the desires that had children. Excessive expectations can overwhelm him and damage your self-esteem if it fails to meet the requirements of parents.

A situation like this can leave you frustrated and with a highly negative sense of failure. It may also be the case that expectations of parents on one / to the / as children / as cause jealousy in his brothers and damaging the self-esteem of these.

It is great that a parent has the best wishes of success for the / as children / as, but these are the ones that motivate act from its own initiative, creativity, effort, self-interest and personal success training; and not because parents ask him or wait for them / as.

A major effort to achieve the objectives that a / a child / a is proposed is the faith that their parents have in their ability to achieve them.

The trust will be demonstrated, real and interior, that can and is trained, it acts as a motivation to success and helps in most cases and contexts to improve himself and his conditioning.

Features children / as with little sense of purpose and motivation.

It shows lack of initiative. Its mechanism leads him to go along to avoid risks.
Often it seems bored / no longer sees or seek alternatives or solutions.
No performance objectives or results sets.
Question: What is all this if I do not care ?.
He feels useless and capacity; seek care with tears or complaints to feel comfortable.
Rarely carried out successfully, your work at home, at school, etc.
He feels it is unable and therefore not worth trying.
He has difficulty making their own decisions. If there is no sufficient reasons not worth making decisions, anything goes.
Do not worry about the quality of work he does.
It assumes its responsibilities and tend to blame their failures on others or circumstances.
It is reactive rather than proactive. Its mechanism has led him to not take initiatives that can cause difficulties.